There are some conversations  that just are not worth having. Welcome to the “the porch”. This is a place where we are free to ponder most anything. The rules here are simple…we ponder most anything but do not expect a solution. We believe that there are certain times that we need to get stuff off our minds and chests… I like that ole saying “it is what it is.” My grandfather many years ago gave me some advice that I practice every day. When you are faced with an issue that requires a decision always go with the one you can live best with. You can always change your mind but misery costs more than it is worth. The number one conversation that I believe is not worth having is this transgender thing. You can ponder on it, even step it up a notch and mull over it… “it is what it is.” If I step away from pondering this trans thing and rely on common sense, even go as far as to consider Science as a neutral arbitrator, wait, I do have to consider the Creator who has provided us with this dilemma… God made all things and that includes Man and Woman… Is God real? If you can’t accept that, then this is one of those conversations that aren’t worth having, ponder on that awhile. I don’t wish to be harsh but my faith and in this instance Science proves my point. You can do whatever you want…add, take away and even believe but the fact is your DNA does not alter how wonderfully you were made. So nuff said…To put it crudely… “if your swinging  this gender thing is a mind thing.”

Kurt