Well it is Wednesday night and I am on the back porch…sat here for awhile but couldn’t get the lady out of my mind at the doctor early this morning…7:45 am… if you will. I was scheduled for a heart echo and stress test, I had already wore a monitor for a week. I am going to share this from my perspective and I am not known for political correctness. First the important stuff. She was from Nashville and rode the train over here to come to St. Thomas Heart East here in Lebanon and we met her in the waiting room for those here for tests while waiting for our tests. She said she was 72 yrs old was here on her own. She was friendly and full of life and a very knowledgeable person when it came to years past and was very much interested in what my problem was. It was remarkable the concern and interest she had in both myself and my wife. I will be 80 in just a few days and anytime us old folks get together many times it is in a doctors office…bet you didn’t know that. It is either Church of doctor, it may be a club, I don’t know. It was obvious she was a lady of the faith and of course we both spoke to that. Now the hard part…
She was black…you can use any other word you want in this age of Wokeness. The lady and I have been around awhile, we are old school and we have seen it all. It brought back memories that weren’t good but also it brought to my mind a time of turmoil, hate and injustice. I can assure you this lady experienced all of it…yet there was a dignity and manner that commanded civility and respect. You see both that lady and the wife and I somehow had found a common ground. Lyndon Johnson and the civil Rights Act of 1964 and all the changes our generation had to make but I just wanted to make this point. Somehow we made it through it and in time while not all wounds healed but a new understanding and forgiveness was the legacy of our generation. But then came the Rev.s Al and Jackson and a host of haters whose only goal was to live off the hate and bury the forgiveness. The loss of MLK was an act of hate and set us back from how far we had come. So here is my summation of all this. Generations now that have taken our place are mad all the time and in their anger they destroy the civility and decency by running over the good that is just waiting to be found. I didn’t get her name but she made my day so much better. All I can say is I wish we had known each other back in the day and I am sorry that the hate of that day stood in our way.
See you next week right here on the back porch.
Kurt






